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ZAHIDA BIBI – Thankful to Bedari for the support

The doorbell become ringing continuously. On beginning the door, a female entered the workplace speeding inside. Protect stopped her to realize who she changed into. After delight he allow her in. She went to the office and after paying regards, she sat at the sofa at the left aspect of my desk. She become served with water and the office boy went out of doors. She turned into examining the room and was panting. I let her relieve her stress on her personal. She drank half of the water. She seemed pretty disappointed and hopeless. She become 30 years old but her physical situation made her appearance very aged. Silence prevailed inside the room for a little while. She broke the silence as I wanted too. She began to talk and the communique commenced.

My call is Zahida and Ishrat baji (CPC member) despatched me to you. Sure Zahida, how might also I help you? Madam my husband and mom in regulation have driven me out of the house, i am so tensed. Making her feel cozy, I informed her that you are very safe here and you do not want to worry approximately absolutely everyone else paying attention to you. Consequently, you can brazenly communicate to me. Madam i’m very scared, my mom in regulation turned into announcing that she will be able to humiliate me everywhere. She was nearly crying. I assured her that her mother in law can’t do any harm if she remains robust. I requested her approximately the complete tale. She collected all her strength and commenced narrating her tale.

It’s been 12 years that i’m married. Starting days of my marriage had been as satisfied and fine as every body else’s. After three hundred and sixty five days, I gave delivery to a daughter. Like me, my husband changed into very satisfied at the birth of our first infant. My mother in law become neither very satisfied nor sad. My 2d infant turned into also a daughter which led my mother in regulation speak sick approximately it. My husband became additionally of the same emotions as my mom in law. She used to show her hopelessness for a toddler boy each example. As a remember of my recognize, I extensively utilized to wish for a son. But destiny laughed at me and my third infant girl turned into born. My mother in regulation simply couldn’t face up to and harshly stated to me, “sufficient now! That is the ultimate risk you’ll get. We are able to’t bear it anymore. We need descendent of the residence. If you’ll fail to accomplish that, i can deliver a 2nd spouse for my son!” that day I cried plenty and my harmless new born child girl became accompanying me in that. She become more like a thorn to me than a flower. I used to be shattered though I considered myself very sturdy. Is giving beginning to a daughter this sort of big sin? If yes, then why don’t ladies’s existence perished from this world? And if that isn’t viable than there must be a few location inside the heart of people for ladies.

Nature felt pity on me and finally I gave delivery to a son. The pillar of my life became born but my mother in regulation snatched him too from me. She is a grasping girl and stored on asking me to convey money from my father. I did to be able to avoid in addition headaches. My son become 8 months vintage when she again demanded the cash. I told her i will’t do it as my father is very elderly now and he is depending on my brothers. Paying attention to this she got outrageous and requested my husband to cast off my son from me. She blamed my individual as well and stated him to kick me out of the residence at the side of my three daughters. My husband being very obedient pushed me out of the house with my daughters. I’m at my mother’s region on account that the day past. My daughters are with me but my son who’s dependent on my feed is at my in legal guidelines. I am so worried about him please help me madam.

Zahida’s story melted my coronary heart. I asked Zahida what help might she like to have from Bedari. She asked Bedari to touch her husband and talk to him immediately. I need to stay with him due to my kids. I confident her that we are able to communicate to him on her behalf. She supplied us with her husband’s telephone wide variety and went away. Subsequent day, I talked to Zahida’s husband, Abdul Shakoor at the quantity she furnished. He agreed to speak about this issue and decided to come back over the identical day. He arrived at office on time. At begin he confirmed a good deal issues about his son and his health. He said that his son was continuously crying due to the fact that the day past and he himself needs any miracle to occur in order that they all stay together. Bedari advised him that Zahida is a individual first and this is the primary cause she merits appreciate much like his mother. Bedari shared with him the possibilities and prison movements Zahida may want to take to have her kids along with her. He was then advised that Zahida desires to settle the entirety and live along with her family instead of any criminal motion.

His communique changed into a evidence that he desires to see his spouse and children soon with him. He told us that he doesn’t want damage his wife or youngsters, but is helpless in front of his mom. He shared that his mom sustains an argumentative surroundings all the time and he become so annoyed now. He turned into concerned about his daughters’ training as nicely. (i was questioning, how smooth it became for him to position the blame on some other lady to show him harmless, as if he was doing all of the choices on his mom’s recommendation). Bedari guided him in the direction of keeping a stability among his mother and spouse and to take a stand for his wife. He ensured that he’s going to take Zahida and daughters home these days and gained’t harm them again. He realized that Zahida is also someone’s daughter and a very caring spouse. Abdul Shakoor made it smooth for us by using understanding very soon that he become wrong. I told him that it’s far of mammoth delight to look you understanding your mistake and transferring towards the right course. Zahida is your being concerned wife and mother of your youngsters, but in particular she has a social significance, that is, she is a individual. And this is the first actual reason for her to be reputable.

Before leaving, Abdul Shakoor thanked Bedari for providing him a platform to reunite together with his family. He was additionally grateful for introducing him to the honour of humanity first. “thanks a lot Bedari”, these have been the closing phrases of Abdul Shakoor before leaving the workplace.

Next day, I got a call from Zahida, she was very satisfied. I ought to experience it in her tone. She was at her own residence and thanked Bedari for supporting her out.